Right after the discovery he agreed to work on things and was doing everything right for about 2 weeks, then suddenly became very ambivalent and it all went South. That's when I told him to leave the 1st time, he left for 10 days then we reunited in MC office and he declared he definitely wanted back in. He immediately came home and I'd say within less than a week things started going South again. He hung in there for a full month but his ambivalence and disinterest in really doing the work steadily increased until I asked him to leave the 2nd time. He's been gone nearly 2 months this time and we've basically been 'dating' the past 3 weeks.
M: 42 H: 43 M: 8 years S7 and D4 H has D19 and S25 from previous M Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA 1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail 2nd separation: 5/1/14