So this morning I came to a harsh realization and that is how selfish I have been throughout our marriage. I always viewed my W and kids as parts of my life and not as my life. I treated my W like she was there to meet my needs and make me happy and other than buying her whatever she wanted I never really focused on making her happy.

As far as a 180 all I can think of is to start showing validation, continue taking a huge interest in my kids. I don't know how to rectify this with her with our limited contact, but it's something that I really want to change. I will bring it up to my IC, but I really need to move the focus from myself in life to the people that matter the most.

Last edited by Corbean; 06/25/14 01:00 PM.
Me-33,W-26
M-4 yrs, T-5 years
S- 2 D- 4 (Special needs, undiagnosed)
Apr 2014 B date
End of April 2014 Moved in with parent's