Last night I heard the wife take off around 1245am She will take a drive when she has trouble sleeping and something is on her mind. usually gone for 30-60minutes. anyway it was raining pretty hard. I sent her a text around 145am to see if she was ok. I cant sleep knowing she is driving around this late at night, she texted back ok driving listening to music be home in an hour or less. At 4am I sent a text are you ok. at 530am she sent back ok. she got home 545am I couldn't sleep so got up and went to work early. was going to take daughter to volleyball this morning at 830am but decided to get my work day started early. wife can get up and take her. I have a hard time believing she was driving around for 5 hours listening to music. I have a feeling she may have been at OM home. My 180 tells me to not bring it up or say anything! This would be a 180 for sure.But I have 3 kids and I feel like I need to set some boundaries. any advice


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