Thank you sooo much for your comments. It means a lot. I will have to look at your story and see if I can support you in some way.
Can I ask a question and it may sound stupid?!
When you say: "....don't you dare try to set a boundary, and not exemplify to your W the man you are trying to be!", what do you mean?
M 35 W 31 D 10 Married 3 years Together 11 Single since Nov 13 Moved out Dec 13 ILYBNILWY, 'I don't want to be a boring housewife, 'I don't fancy you any more' OM confirmed Jun 14
