My H's MLC

[Ssarah]

Brightfuture thanks for your response. I'm reading divorce remedy now and am also doing the counseling sessions. I guess because I'm only a little over 2 months from BD it's hard for me to stay consistent with detaching. I am good until he starts interacting with me like the "old self". I find it hard then not to talk to him like before, about house and family decisions. As for the divorce, he's threatened it since BD and now has retained a lawyer and sent me a letter to contact them but hasn't yet initiated proceedings (that doesn't mean he won't). I feel like he's slowly going in that direction but isn't full force about it. He's also still living at home still and doesn't look to be moving out. I wish he did so that he could be without us completely for some time. Right now I feel like he has the best of both worlds.. the OW and then his family.