Chatted a bit with H tonight and man, I really feel a coolness from him again. I'm not sure how I should be behaving at this point. Of course it goes without saying that I should (and will) continue to work on myself. But I'm not sure if I should be initiating interactions with him or pulling back. I am concerned about pulling back given his declaration the other day that he wants to work on things. Pulling back seems counter to 'working on things'.
I'm also really uncertain about how/when to decide to let him move back in. At this point he's said all the right things, and even done a few. But I think the real doing/proving will have to happen once we're living together again. I'll admit, I'm anxious to have him back home so we can seriously get on repairing things. There's just not much opportunity when physically separated.
M: 42 H: 43 M: 8 years S7 and D4 H has D19 and S25 from previous M Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA 1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail 2nd separation: 5/1/14
