How do you let go the frustration and resentment towards what he is doing to our boys? Not that I can understand or reason with him choosing to leave our family for a girl but to do this to our two innocent children and treat them like this makes the mama bear in me want to come out. I honestly just wish he'd leave us alone at this point. It hurts the boys more when he shows up Half the time. It's like they get used to him not coming then he comes one night and then we don't see him for awhile.
