Ssarah, welcome to the board. And sorry you are here. Keep posting, so you could get off the moderation sooner.
Originally Posted By: Ssarah

He said no, that I don't get it, that he's done, he's dead inside, he has nothing left for me, I killed his love for me. That I'm nasty and snappy and negative and that I will always be that way (he said I'll only get worse with age). That we didn't have enough sex (and at that point he's right we barely were).. that people don't change, that they shouldn't have to, that our relationship has just run it's course.

Originally Posted By: Ssarah

How I will probably find someone better than him anyway and I will be happy.. but that we will not work.

I could have written this about my sitch, because my H said this almost word for word. I’ve doing the right thing to give him his space. The D filing doesn’t mean there is no chance to save your M. It looks like your H is very confused. Have you read the DB or DR book yet?

M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state