Since I'm on moderation and my post took almost a week to publish I wanted to write an update. Since I received the letter from his attorney I really have tried to detach. He still lives at home and we have small children so it's hard to go dark completely but I've been trying my best to be distant. He in turn has been pursuing me more. He initiated intimacy on the other night and since one of his complaints was that we weren't intimate enough I went with it. Is that something I shouldn't do? He also talked about vacationing with the kids. I responded that we'd have to figure things out. I didn't say this but if you want a divorce, do you think we'll be vacationing after? I am not sure how I should be responding to these sorts of things. And advice would be appreciated.
Me: 35, H: 36, M: 6, S: 1, D: 3, BD: 4/21/14 H still living at home