Matt- No kidding they hear what they want to hear! I've had 3 conversations with H about his EA, all initiated by him and each several months apart. Every time it's like we are having the same conversation and even though he recognized the damaging effects in the previous conversation, it's like he's rethinking whether it's really damaging. Crazy! It was actually helpful for me to see this last week as it really drove home how long of a process this is, and I saw how he bounces in and out of a milder form of replay. Thanks for the encouragement. I hope your W also is able to process through and see the damage before it's too late.
Me 41 H 40 M 20 T 23 S 19,16, 8 D 13 BD1 dec 2012 not sure going to work BD2 sep 2013 seeking a D Filed oct 2013, D Feb 2015 Life is about daring greatly, about being in the arena- Brene Brown