What to do II

[rayzzz]

I am gonna chime in.
First off sir Ben I salute you! For being a young padewan in the ways of db it is great to see such hopeful progress with your WAP! BUt remember...use the force wisely and slowly as the others said.

As well on the porn issue. That has affected me to, but recently I read this great book "Wild At Heart" by John Eldredge and its all about being a man of integrity (i quote his rescuing a beauty phrase often here)
His view is that weak men get addicted to porn because they don't have the balls to have to engage in a real relationship with women, heart mind and soul. They would rather be emasculated and "wimp out" by making sure they could have any woman they want cause its their fantasy and they get to "win" and conquer her all the time.
Well I had a spiritual awakening since then and havent looked at anything for a few months now. and its gonna sound strange but even being "happy to myself" just started sucking the strength out of me. So its been very grounding for me to restrain myself and I actually feel alot more powerful. So yeah it can be done and glad you are getting a handle on this too.