That's all part of DBing. You did read the book right?
The thing is that when you start DBing you try to stop the negative reactions from your spouse and increase the positive ones. That's all part of it. You don't stop DBing. You keep the positives going.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.