I'm glad you are able to identify the problem in yourself and you're dealing with it.
It is SERIOUS. And for many it is not easily overcome. My H is not the only one who ultimately chose it over his wife. They get to a point where they just prefer it, and a real woman is not only "too much work", she's just "bad porn."
I'm not sure about the rules re: posting the link to the Porn Addiction site on this board.
It's not competitive in any way, but I'll ask our helpful moderator!
---GG
Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?