If you work out the respect thing, please let me know haha.
I lost a fair bit of that in my wife's eyes.

All I can say is to try and appreciate even the smallest things he does. Saying it to him would do wonders too. Us guys will travel miles when we know that we're appreciated.

Suspected EA: Feb 2013
Bomb drop: Mid March 2013
Separation: Mid April 2013
(I fought for marriage)
Filed for Divorce: April 2014
Accidental Exposure of affair: June 2014