I keep wondering how exactly piecing differs from DBing. My gut tells me that first and foremost it's very much the same in that I need to continue to focus on being the best ME I can be.

I can see how the resentment could kill piecing RedHawk. I do worry about that. I suspect H is worried about it. I also wonder if I can ever get back to respecting H.

M: 42
H: 43
M: 8 years
S7 and D4
H has D19 and S25 from previous M
Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA
1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail
2nd separation: 5/1/14