There is nothing to be gained except irritating him, and surely it will. Or at least confuse him about what you mean or want.
Why not give yourself a divorce card--and a big slice of pie a la mode to go with it.
You deserve it.
Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?