I'm nowhere near this point, not sure if I ever will.
But I wish you both all the luck in the world.

I have pieced unmarried relationships back together, but what I failed in everytime, was resentment. I never cleared it out.
It's like ignoring that rust spot on the car and then wondering why you're driving like Fred Flintstone in a year's time.

Suspected EA: Feb 2013
Bomb drop: Mid March 2013
Separation: Mid April 2013
(I fought for marriage)
Filed for Divorce: April 2014
Accidental Exposure of affair: June 2014