So H and I seem to be on the very cusp of piecing. And it scares the Poop outta me. I'm trying to find a thread in the piecing forum that is successful. But it seems whenever I open a thread and read the signature the final line is: 'Separated again' or 'OW/M #2 discovered' or 'D final xx/xx/xx'

Anyone have links to successful piecing threads?? I want to get a realistic picture of what's sure to be a windy, bumpy road ahead. And most importantly, what WORKS.

M: 42
H: 43
M: 8 years
S7 and D4
H has D19 and S25 from previous M
Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA
1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail
2nd separation: 5/1/14