Welcome and sorry to find yu hear with us. We all know your pain and if you read my thread I also got the ILYBINILWY (get to know the abbreviations we use them alot. there is a thread)
Your wife is a Walk Away Wife (WAW) youtube that WAW syndrome and Michelle Weirner Davis...she has a great video explaining everything.
Cadet usually sends this out but here is our first welcome message:
Welcome to the board
Get out and GAL.
DETACH.
Believe none of what she says and half of what she does.
Have NO EXPECTATIONS.
Take care of yourself, breathe, eat, sleep, exercise.
You are on moderation right now on the forum. SO post in small frequent posts until you get off of it.
Your W is giving you a GIFT. THE GIFT OF TIME.
USE it wisely.
Knowledge is Power - Sir Francis Bacon
Then read these next rules, memorize and apply them. Read and get hope from these threads some like Sandi2 and Starsky and 25 have all made it back to reconciliation.
It is the toughest hell you will ever go through but you can fight your way to being a better you and maybe even saving your marriage. Hang in there
