I hit submit by accident....if she wants to hang out and chat again do I tell her im busy? or keep chatting with no fights? my wife is very pridefull and the fact she told me that she was doing real bad financially is pretty big. I remember before I moved out I told her "how do you figure you will have more money if we have 2 incomes?" she responded "that's the chance im willing to take". I remember thinking that one day she will eat crow with those words...when she told me last night about her finances I thought back to that day, funny thing is I swore that day I will throw it back at her. but I didn't, I kind of had a self satisfied moment but just felt sorry for her.


Me: 42
W: 39
D: 2 age 6 and 9
D-Day: Dec 29 13
Seperated: 3/20/14
Mediation retainer : 5/20/14
She filed: 06/25/14