Please do not view it as me stomping my feet . . .
I'm not going to speak for Job, but MM I've noticed you do this a lot:
Where do you get off telling other people how to view things? All you can do is post here, and others are free to view your situation as they see fit (provided we're courteous and such, which Job always is, I'm sure you would agree).
It's dismissive when you do this, and maybe you don't even realize it. But I think it folds into this whole "me, me, me" package that is front-burner right now for you.
