I'm confused. I thought my last stmt was one of a healthier one because I was saying it from a place of accepting and letting go. Accepting that the dynamics are different and I just didn't know the new rules. Stating that I did my best to enquire about her with concern. He allowed me in when it suited him and I didn't respond like the spoiled brat begging for more details, calling and persisting (like i would have done normally) . I left it alone. He didn't like that. And therefore he behaved the way that usually makes me get back in line. Although, I haven't reacted it responded like I normally do. Now, this could purely be mind reading. One will never know. Either way, the way I conducted myself is better than what he would normally get from me. He will now begin to realize that I cannot respond like a wifey or mm in the areas of sex or taking care if mom. Apparently I have been demoted to business partner only and should act as such.
After hearing more of the story today, I know there were Times last night to inform me that he could have texted even if to say "busy, details tomorrow". Something/anything. Last week when my dd was in accident I made the effort to respond to all who enquired.
Please do not view it as me stomping my feet because if I were, I would have reacted and responded with anger/hurt towards him asking why he didn't keep me informed last night.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
