"However, based on your patience for dealing with the SSM issues and a woman turning 50 and whatever else she may have going on, I tend to agree that you have neither the patience, temperament nor empathy for working thru it with her. If you cannot place your own needs on hold for even 24 HOURS without needing to cling to her, then you probably have no hope of doing the hard work necessary to find a potential solution to this."
EXACTLY!
Oh and a friendly warning. The next person you end up with whom you think is "perfect" may develop this same thing. The decision for you is if you are willing to keep going through a string of relationships to fulfill your sexual needs like you did in your past.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.