Yes, its mind reading because I know his past/current same behaviours... not revolving around me. I can see why you state that, but he is selfish & is not all into his "mom's condition" like you see. Yes, he cares & is concerned but there is another element to this & my daughter pointed it out to me. So posted it here for you all to comment & for me to figure it out once written down.
Please understand that I am just trying to understand. I am just writing down my expectations vs. his.... and playing out the outcome on paper.
I was and am genuinely concerned about his mom... and will direct my concerns to her.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
