I love these rules! They really help me stay focused. While I want H back, I know that all of my changes are for me!
After only a week, he has started mentioning them and saying he is scared it is all for him. I thank him for the compliment but mention that it is for me and my happiness. I want to have a great relationship with myself and the kids.
His BD was a wake up call that I haven't been happy with myself for a while, but I need to make changes for me and the kids. I want my marriage, but I feel like changes will work if I do it for us and not for him.
It has been a sad time, but I have also felt like I have been closer to my kids.
