Originally Posted By: MrBond
"I would have thought this is the point I should go on the LRT as we are now on trial seperation.."

Why don't you go ahead and file for D yourself? I mean you don't even put in the effort to read the book.

"I really want some advice wether I should leave today or leave when she tells me to."

Start being a man and make the decision already. Everyone gave you their opinions but you're too scared to do anything. You don't want to do any work. You expect to be just spoon fed everything and not take responsibility for anything.

"It would force me to let her go.. I cannot be with a cheater."

And yet you expect her to stay with you? I say another man right now would be a better option until you start growing up. Now you're thinking if there's infidelity? I will tell you something very clearly. If there is infidelity, it is YOUR FAULT.

It's very obvious.


When you say very obvious do you mean that she is cheating?

As ive heard that if a spouse is cheating there is nothing you can do until the affair ends which it does after the honeymoon period. But I wouldnt want to be with someone thats had an affair.. do it once you can do it over and over again..

Yes if there is infidelity then yes it is my fault due to the neglection and annoying behaviour but are you referring to obvious as she IS having an affair?

Last edited by 1Wish; 06/24/14 06:03 PM.

M: 25 W:22
Said she wanted a D March 2014

Everythings worked out for me for the best.