D day in 2 weeks Should I give a goodbye card?

[kat727]

I think he would see you doing this to make him feel bad. I know I was terribly sad when I found out the divorce was final. Now after nearly six years, I can see that I am better off. He did things his way only and didn't think or care what I needed. I sometimes think it has to do with him being an adopted only child. So much of his parents attention was on him and what they could do so he wouldn't stop seeing them.

It takes alot of work to get to a better place, I won't lie to you. But it does happen.

kat