my motive is to say goodbye to him, and have closure for myself. I have been DBing and not discussing R or M and mentioning only light hearted casual issues. I feel that D day is one and only time a serious but very brief goodbye would be appropriate.
M 56 H 52 M 13.5 T 15 S 28 twinStep Ds 24 ILYBNILWY BD 1/5/14 OW 4/11/14 Divorce petition efiled 5/5/14 Divorce final 7/8/14
