D day in 2 weeks Should I give a goodbye card?

[kat727]

He won't take it as closure but just another attempt or an attack since he wants the divorce. Are you still wanting to save your marriage? I know D B has saved some marriages but in all honesty I believe it is about saving yourself.

The marriages I know that were saved were those where the LBS really had moved forward. They were already creating a new life sans spouse. It wasn't a ploy or a game. Just the way it was.

Please think about what your goals are.

kat