Also read the advice from wise DB'ers threads. A lot of very positive stuff in there and great ways to think differently on your sitch. If you want things to improve youneed to do the exact oopposite of what you did to get yourself here. You can make yourself better right now. Your spouse has to make her own decision.
"Don't chase people. Be yourself, do your own thing, and work hard. The right people - the ones who really belong in your life - will come to you. And stay." ~ Will Smith
