Hello! I am a LBS and don't want the D. I am praying for a "road to Damascus" miracle to change my H's mind, but D's obviously going to happen on 7/8 if my WAS H has his way and gets attorney to go to court on soonest possible date to get D finalized. Therefor, I am assuming D on 7/9/14.
Should I give H a divorce card? I have asked on the MLC forum, and was advised by one member NOT to do so, as it would be against DBing technique. At point of D, I'd think the DBing technique could be stopped.?
The card I have in mind is a photo card of the Grand Canyon being struck by lightening. There are not any inscriptions outside or inside. I was merely going to write something like "Thanks for our time together. I wish you happiness. Love always, me."
Does anyone else have any advise? I feel I should acknowledge closure...? To be truthful, I'm still in shock that all of this is happening, and not certain I trust my own judgement.
