come back for reasons other than being head over heels, Hollywood "soulmate" , porn-star sexed starved for you...
LOL!!
I don't expect that.
Those questions ^^^ and my rambling thoughts are to try to determine if "TRY" is a valid thing with her...that she truly believes/thinks a new, better R with me is possible, if not guaranteed...And will truly put in the effort. That is one area of broken trust with me. Based on her past behaviors, even pre-mlc.
I'm not usually an all or nothing thinker, but I have learned to pay closer attention to the grey areas.
What I don't want is someone who is only in it until the kids are out of the house and they have advanced their career, then they leave again. I want better than that for myself and my kids.
"I" have to be part of the equation, the desire to come back. Worth the work.
Because I am.
Gah!! Need more coffee...
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
