That's some very good insight and not easy to do. Thanks for taking the time.

Sounds like you've made helpful changes in you. Keep it up.

Would you agree that there are many ways to be unfaithful to your M or W? You've alluded to what you were putting before your W and M, maybe all of this is a message from God to you.

You may have been slow to hear it but now you have.

Her R with God is hers. Don't interfere, that's trying to fix.

You have plenty to do in working on you.

In all that reading, did you come across the Cloud and Townsend books on relationships and boundaries?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss