Yesterday, Xbf made a "OMG" comment (he saw some pretty girl walking) we were on the phone discussing vehicles he just went to view. I asked him to describe what he saw & he said, "no, just enjoying the city scenery"... I stated NO, not the pretty girl but the vehicles he saw. .... Inside our R, it was OK to make these comments... NOW, they bug me & not sure why he does it (not thinking??) & how I should handle it. At this point I said, I was going to head in early to work today as I would be leaving early for a concert.
Later that afternoon, while working (just before I was ready to leave for concerrt). Same time as Thursday, when I tried to go to last concert.... he gets a call from his mom that she hurt herself & needs to go to hospital. He doesn't give me much info, but states he must leave & rushes to go... something about her ankle. He was kind of angry. This was at 4:30. Normally, I would have texted or called impatiently to enquire. This time I waited... nothing, no notices, no explanation what happened to her. Normally (within our relationship), I would have gone with him to the hospital & kind of steered the whole event.
At 6:30 I texted: On my way to concert. Keep me updated?
He texted back: Waiting for X-ray..she is on inter venous and will be put under. dislocated ankle and maybe broken bones as well are possible.
I texted back: Wow. Keep me posted please
Him: Yup
at 9:00: (still nothing from him)... Any updates yet?
(no reply).
Meanwhile, he had just been texting with my DD asking to borrow my moms crutches, then never mind they will buy some.
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I am hurt/confused!!! why wouldn't he keep me informed? I will contact her myself today...but not sure how to respond/react towards him today. Why wouldn't he keep me in the loop? Can anyone explain why he wouldn't want to tell me?
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
