Dawgy, we are not experts on what is guaranteed to work. But, we know being "needy" and "clingy" will never make your spouse or any spouse want to come back. Sandi's list is good at least 85% of the time at least for my sitch.
The more you "push" love on your spouse the more the spouse will "pull". That is pull away towards not you.
And she's a woman. Give her space to miss you. Its like dating, I know its difficult but this is your only shot. Don't do what hasn't worked based on practice and experience.
Read Sandi's list, detach, and be the awesome spouse you are; don't judge, be friendly, be upbeat and don't be the sideline b*tech every rapper raps about. Its all you or no you brother.
Good luck!
"Don't chase people. Be yourself, do your own thing, and work hard. The right people - the ones who really belong in your life - will come to you. And stay." ~ Will Smith
