If we say yes how does that change your attitude towards W and M?
If it is a deal breaker for you will you forget about trying to do the work to better yourself?
If it isn't a deal breaker you have to let it go. It is her journey and she must complete it and you have to allow her to do so.
A very respected veteran told me how to get over the possibility of an A.
He said think of the worst case scenario that could be happening in an A. Let yourself feel that pain for a little bit a day or two.
Then pick up yourself up and realize you didn't have anything to do with her choice to stray and have an A. It is her choice and it is also your choice to handle it however YOU feel is correct.
Life is a bunch of choices, just remember with choices come consequences, good ones and bad ones.
Me 47/W 34 T 16 M 13 No kids BD 6/2013 W asked that I move out 6/2013 I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013 separate beds not much talking Served D Complaint 5/2014 W moved out 9/27/2014
