Not sure if this is a good idea or not.

In my last post I mentioned how maybe I need to do things differently once this hearing about money assistance takes place on Monday.

Would me telling my W that I am moving back into our bedroom because I am paying for it so I mine as well use it(not necessarily in those words). She is free to stay in there or move to the spare room And also I am using the upstairs bathroom if it is more convenient for me. Instead of constantly going downstairs to use that bathroom for showers and etc.

Maybe I have taken this giving space and respect for her thing too far?

I don't want to turn into a jerk but wth if being nice isn't working maybe a little bit of "I don't care anymore" is in order.

Is this wise or is there some other way that I can show her I'm pretty detached at the moment without invading her spaces to do it?


Me 47/W 34
T 16 M 13
No kids
BD 6/2013
W asked that I move out 6/2013
I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013
separate beds not much talking
Served D Complaint 5/2014
W moved out 9/27/2014