25, you out there? H is moving not to Alaska, but may as well be. It will be 4 hr plane ride away. count in another 2 for getting there, parking, shuttle...
the kids will not go visit him there.
he'll come back in town once a month, maybe twice...stay at a hotel.
Don't know how he thinks he can parent that way.

talking with him tonight. we keep making these appointments to talk but then it never happens.
I want to ask, if that is the lifestyle he really wants.... I guess I know, MLC'ers don't know what they want and can only run.

I am still friendly( in less than a neighborly way) when he comes over. I don't contact him. The little he is here, I am busy...

Bills are still being paid.

My classes will be coming to an end in sept, but I am going to tell h that I will wait until the new year to look for a job unless something falls in my lap.

Sometimes i am so disgusted by how he has chosen to behave. other times I am sad for him.


M48 H50
M21 T26
S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old
PA confirmed 7/2012
H separates 9/2012
H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY
OW still in picture. h filed 10/13