She says she's conflicted

[Oxford1]

Who cares?? So what? How are you becoming a better man/choice? That is your task. Do you understand that?

So, What are your 180s? And your GAL?

(And please do not involve family members again...OMG that is NOT helping YOU or them)

Become a man only a fool would leave.

That^^ task will solve every solvable problem you have that is within your control. Leave the rest up to God.

CHANGE YOURSELF ASAP.

B/c you keep blaming her, and obsessing and deflecting, at your peril.[u][/u][i][/i]

This is great I will stick it in my brain.

It is all about controlling myself.

the part about "only a fool would leave"

Is really what I need to focus on...

That will be my 180 for now..stop discussing OM!!