Im trying here guys . This is the worst thing ive ever been through . Not snooping is very difficult . She was fairly pleasant today but all night she kept blankets between us and didnt want me to touch her . I m not so sure about this detachment thing it seems to work a bit but them it also gives her time to be with OM . That does nt make sense to me . but if you guys say so . I also noticed that you guys are all still separated ? Has anyone gained some ground here to say that Sandi s list really works ? I not doubting it , im just looking for proof that the technique works .I really appreciate all the input . It makes me feel better but so far all I can see from the techniques of DB is giving her some space , she likes that but probably only because it gives her time to text or be with him .Also detachment scares me , what if I detach to the point i dont care about her anymore . Thats not whaT i WANT HERE , i WANT TO SAVE MY MARRIAGE MORE THAN ANYTHING iVE EVER WANTED . iM NOT QUESTIONING ANYONES POSITION HERE , iM JUST VERY CONFUSED ABOUT THE TECHNIQUE
Me 45 W 45 Son 16 Son 14 Married 23 together 27 W threatened sep several times W still at home A discovered Mar 17 2014 A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )
