It is normal to let your emotions control your actions. DBing is about being abnormal. It is about being counterintuitive. In otherwords, every time you want to do something, do the opposite. Then you will be in a good place
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16