well with or without the job we are not getting back anytime soon from the way she has been talking and filing the divorce. I feel like if she is probably thinking that this is more a reason to divorce...but I may be wrong. Its the way I handle this situation and how I react that will show what kind of a man I am. I can easily say poor me..my life is falling apart and now I get laid off...which is probably what she expects or I can get a better job and bounce right back up...the only way from the bottom is up. But I need to not care what she thinks because it will only bring me down and mess with my head.
Or she could be pissed that if you do not have a job/income, she cannot get financial help from you AFTER the divorce. Divorce is a great time to be broke.
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16
