dawgy, don't take the 6 month affair as a rule. That may just be an average. I have no idea who did the research to come up with the number.
My WAW's A lasted over a year. And I'm still not 100% sure it's totally over. I think she's keeping him in her back pocket in case things don't work out with me. But that's just my imagination going wild.
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Ive got it in my head that if we make it to the end of the month and she doesnt leave Im going to kick it into gear DB bigtime ,but right now i just need to make it to there .
2x4 time. Dawgy, give your head a shake! NOW is the time to kick the DBing into high gear. Seriously! Consider it a challenge like you've never had before in your life. The next 7 days are critical to follow Sandi's rules to a T. Do not waver. I know it's incredibly hard, when you're going through the emotional rollercoaster. I've been there and you have to do all your freaking out in private and not in front of her. Take a drive or take a walk to a secluded place and scream and cry there. When in front of your W be happy, calm and detached. Don't snoop. Don't mention the OM. Don't mention the A. Be the H only a fool would leave. Do it NOW!
M: 59 W: 53 M: 9 yrs T: 14 yrs No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine) W moved out 11/18/2013 D-Day 12/14/2013 W moved back home 12/1/2014