I totally agree Thornton. I didn't want it to come off as Me having false hope or thinking he still loves me but I agree. He keeps Me at arms length. He does not want anything to do with me as in seeing me or even hearing my voice. And he's fine without talking with me about anything but he continues to ask the same questions about the boys when he either A knows the answer or B doesn't plan on doing anything with the information I give him
I really think it would be beneficial if we could just have NO contact. Besides Pre-arranging his pick up dates with the boys. That is why I have him my schedule in advance. Because he comes over on the nights I work. Therefore I expect him to come and he doesn't need to talk to me. That was the point. Tomorrow is his night and he's asking me if the boys want to see him? Just come when you're supposed to come and don't talk to me otherwise right?