well with or without the job we are not getting back anytime soon from the way she has been talking and filing the divorce. I feel like if she is probably thinking that this is more a reason to divorce...but I may be wrong. Its the way I handle this situation and how I react that will show what kind of a man I am. I can easily say poor me..my life is falling apart and now I get laid off...which is probably what she expects or I can get a better job and bounce right back up...the only way from the bottom is up. But I need to not care what she thinks because it will only bring me down and mess with my head.


Me: 42
W: 39
D: 2 age 6 and 9
D-Day: Dec 29 13
Seperated: 3/20/14
Mediation retainer : 5/20/14
She filed: 06/25/14