I'm sorry to hear about your sitch. The more I think about what's going on and hear things happen I think maybe we are better off. I hope one day your H and mine will wake up. But if not at least we have taken this opportunity to figure out what we want and the problems we contributed to the R so that in the future we can be a better W.
H sent me a text now asking if the boys wanted to do something with him tomorrow. It's 10 they are sleeping!
I just replied 'Im sure but I will ask them tomorrow they are sleeping. If you could please drop their bike stuff by also because they've been wanting to ride bikes but they can't because you have their stuff.' He said okay and I said thank you. That's it.
I was reading back through our communication tonight through day one (saving things for legal purposes). It makes Me sad all the things I said to him and every reply for a. Week after he left was I'm done I'm never coming home. I would send him pictures (mistake) and kept saying I was fighting for our marriage we deserve a chance to fight instead of just walking out without voicing his problems etc. I wish I would have just been quiet from day one like I've been since finding DB/DR.
I feel like so much damage has been done and now he is enthralled in another relationship that there is no hope of him ever seeing me as anything but 'the ex'
