Thanks m and AJ, I think that until her father is no longer so much in her life she will be much more interested in getting his attention and approval. Until she deals with that part of her life, not even her kids will matter much to her.
Just tonight she texted me about the phone she number I had to release. I did it weeks ago but it expired because she never went to do her part. Somehow it was my fault and the fact that she was wrong about the cheapest way to get our D14 a phone (she insisted it would save money if she bought her a used phone. I told her it would actually cost more but she wouldn't listen) made her even angrier. Like a teenager. Hates to be wrong about anything.
I'll be fine. All this kind of thing does is show me what a jerk she is being. She will see what life alone will be like and I doubt it will be any happier. I have a feeling things will go better for me in the end then her. I don't wish her ill, really I don't. I just want for her to realize someday just how much damage she has done.
Thanks to you both, only day one. Many days ahead.
