Hurt and Confussed

[T-boned]

Hey, Oad, it happens to all of us. I've been at this for about 10 months and I still have bad days. Cried last night because I miss my husband, the one that I knew, and because he is in Spain for a month. Don;t know who he went with . . doesn't matter ...but I missed the fun we had traveling together.

I had a few bad days last week - every week I have bad days, sometimes its all day, others its only for a few minutes or hours. Sometimes I can get myself out of it by distracting myself with something else to do like yard work or a good fiction book.

Speaking of books, I have one for ya, it's called Rebuilding When Your Relationship Ends by Drs. Bruce Fisher and Robert Alberti. You'll wonder if they were hiding behind the walls in your house.

Really good and goes well with DBing and DR despite the title.

I'm sorry, I can't remember, can you spend time with your girls whenever you want? If so, spend as much time with them as you can. They'll make you happy and will hug you alot. I think you need some hugs. I guarantee you they miss their daddy.

Hang in there, ,my friend. ((Hug))