Although mostly I feel like I got lucky and (hopefully) dodged a bullet. I believe H wanted to work it out almost from the getgo but was so mucked up with his feelings for OW, and worried that we could never be happy. A few fun dates reminding him of what we used to have seemed to turn him pretty quickly. I just need to be CONSISTENT to turn it around for good. He certainly needs to continue to earn his way back but I need to put the A aside, at least sometimes, and show him that yes, we can still be happy. Unfortunately we really were terribly disconnected for a long while. Although it totally sux that an A had to open our eyes, it feels nice to be finally getting back to 'us' again.
We're going to do lunch again tomorrow. I'm going to keep this one light and fun.
M: 42 H: 43 M: 8 years S7 and D4 H has D19 and S25 from previous M Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA 1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail 2nd separation: 5/1/14
