Not Giving Up

[Ben2010]

"but I still feel like she is just using this time to adjust to her new life, get comfortable, and then move on."

Cmon Thorn, thats clearly mindreading and its not helping you right now. Just take it for what it is.

"She still hasn't picked up her things, changed her mailing address, or changed her relationship status on Facebook"

I still see those as all positives right now. Thats one of the things that is keeping me going in my sitch too. She still has everything over at our place. When I talked to her about it, she told me that she was living on one weeks worth of clothes and that it SUCKED. Im sure she is feeling about the same.


"It's been 7 weeks since bomb and she's initiated friendly texts 3 times. I know things wont happen on my timeline but I'm starting to feel like a sucker for having hope."

3 texts are better than no texts. They werent negative. And dont feel like a sucker. Youre just waiting on this because you believe this relationship is worth saving and wating on.

As far as she knows you are detached. You dont talk to her. Youre not stalking her or anything. So youre doing a great job of faking it. Same results whether its real or not. Youre strong, you got this.